We don’t see things as they are but we see things as WE are – so sometimes it’s better NOT to focus on your goals…
This is a true story…
A man sat in a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; it was a cold January morning. He played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, since it was rush hour, it was calculated that more than two thousand people went past him, most of them on their way to work.
Three minutes after he started playing, a middle aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried by. A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip – a woman threw the money in the hat without stopping and continued on her way. A few minutes later, a man leaned against the wall to listen to him, but then looked at his watch and started to walk again. Clearly he was late for work.
The one who paid the most attention was a three year old boy. His mother was rushing him along, but the child stopped to look at the violinist. So the mother nudged the child forward and the child continued to walk – turning his head back all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception, forced them to move on.
In the 45 minutes the musician played, only six people stopped and stayed for a while. About twenty gave him money but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.
No one knew this but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the best musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, on a violin worth 3.5 million dollars. Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at a theater in Boston and the seat price was $100.
Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and priorities of people. The outlines were: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour: Do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context?
One of the possible conclusions from this experience could be: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing? Is it because ‘We don’t see things as they are but we see things as WE are.’
So sometimes, it’s OK – NO it’s better NOT to focus on our goals. If you are doing your daily visualisation exercises then your subconscious mind is going to be looking out for opportunities for you to achieve your goals twenty-fours a day. So let it get on with the job it’s been programmed to do and take some time out to appreciate the other wonderful things in our lives.
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